Getting to Know Teen Culture

Want to learn more about the influences and pressures of today’s teen culture? Here are some interesting and insightful ways you can find out just what teens are up to.

You Tube
Go to YouTube and enter “smoking weed” in the search bar. Watch some of the videos and then talk to your teen about what you saw.

Text Messaging Lingo
Many teens speak a whole seperate text-messaging language. Try to decipher these common words and phrases to keep up to date on what teens are saying, and visit NetLingo for the latest text messaging lingo you should know as a parent.

AITR     CULA8R     POS     GTG     YGTBK

Music Lyrics
Some of the most popular music teens listen to today is about drug use or other risky behaviors. Here’s where you can check out music lyrics that are streaming into teens’ headphones. Which songs/artists does your teen listen to, and have you talked to them about what the lyrics mean?

Video Games
Have a look at some of today’s hottest video games. Then find out if your teen is familiar with them or plays any of them. Have you noticed any violence, drug or alcohol references, and do you feel the games are age-appropriate? Do you know the rating system? Check it out here.

Social Networking
Visit social networking sites like MySpace or Facebook, and browse the profiles of teens your child’s age to see what they say, what their interests are, and what they are doing online. Talk with your teen about what you have learned.

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Hot Links and Useful Sites

Teen drinking linked to watching R-rated movies

by Sharon Jayson, USA Today, 4/26/10

New Dartmouth Medical School research on 2,406 children shows that middle-schoolers who are forbidden to watch R-rated movies are less likely to start drinking than peers whose parents are more lenient about such films.

Researchers found that among those whose parents let them watch R-rated movies "all the time," almost a quarter had tried a drink without parents' knowledge. That compares with barely 3 percent who tried a drink among those who were "never allowed" to watch R-rated movies. See the full article here.


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